Give yourself 1 point for each “a” answer and 0 points for each “b” answer.
1. When you come to a restaurant, will you agree to sit at a table where someone is already sitting?
a) No; b) Yes.
2. Does it happen that before a long trip you suddenly want to give it up?
a) Yes; b) No.
3. Do you often remember your dreams?
a) No; b) Yes.
4. Do you like to make new acquaintances?
a) No; b) Yes.
5. Do you sometimes wake up in the middle of the night feeling very hungry?
a) Yes; b) No.
6. In principle, is it indifferent to you what place to take in a theater or at a concert?
a) Yes; b) No.
7. Do you get very upset when a button on your shirt (blouse) suddenly comes off?
a) Yes; b) No.
8. Sometimes it happens that when you go outside, you think, have you turned off the iron, gas, have you forgotten something else?
a) Yes; b) No.
9. Do you often startle when the phone rings?
a) Yes; b) No.
10. Do you often feel deadly tired, although you don't seem to be overtired?
a) Yes; b) No.
11. Do you usually make decisions quickly?
a) No; b) Yes.
12. Are you guided in your actions mainly by what others expect of you?
a) Yes; b) No.
13. Do you often feel dissatisfied with yourself, upset for no apparent reason?
a) Yes; b) No.
14. Are you happy with the guests who came without prior agreement with you?
a) No; b) Yes.
15. Do you often feel like not seeing anyone, being alone and feeling sad?
a) Yes; b) No.
Sum the scores and review the findings.
15-13 points. Most likely, you do not allow your feelings to develop, you are afraid of your "free"
thoughts. Don't back yourself into a corner! Try to overcome your fears and then your life will become much more interesting!
12-9 points. Apparently, you can not be called very confident in yourself and your abilities. This sensation probably does not allow you to fully “spread your wings”. Analyze your actions, do not be lazy and do not be afraid to defend your point of view. And most importantly, don't go with the flow!
8-5 points. This result suggests that you have a need to feel more confident as a person. But you are a bit stiff and often afraid of public opinion.
4-1 points. We do not exclude that you rarely commit rash acts and, in general, stand firmly on your feet. If at times you experience insecurity, this is not a disadvantage, but only indicates the flexibility of your psyche.
0 points. You are so self-confident that it feels as if you were not sincere in your answers. This is what we hope for, because the ancient aphorism says: "Excessive self-confidence causes great troubles." Try to take the test again.
You always want to show yourself to people! And how creative are you in this life and capable of something more than just talking about it? Read what is offered below, try to answer the questions truthfully and understand yourself and your capabilities.
There is nothing in the article below that summarizes your answers and makes a "diagnosis", answering for you the question of who you are. Therefore, be frank in your answers and evaluate yourself. A positive answer to the questions posed indicates your originality and self-confidence present in you. So let's get started!
1. Do you always stick to your point of view, not because you are sure of its correctness, but because you have no fear of mistakes?
Vain and self-confident people almost always stand their ground, completely ignoring other points of view. They are sure that only they are right. By definition, these are "intellectual bullies."
Truly confident people are never afraid to be wrong. The truth is more important for them than their rightness and they are always ready to accept and admit it.
2. Are you always more active in listening to others than talking yourself?
Uncertainty in actions is always covered by boasting. Such behavior is not inherent in people who are completely confident in themselves. They always have their own position on any issue, but are ready to hear and accept others. As a rule, they ask their opponents direct and open questions, trying to hear other points of view, opinions, and advice.
Self-confident people realistically assess their knowledge about problems, they are ready to expand them, believing that the only way To learn more.
3. You do not like fame, preferring to bring other people into the spotlight?
It is those for whom fame is not the main thing that always do a significant amount of work. They take on all the problems, unite around themselves a team capable of solving them. Ovations, on-duty words of gratitude are not for them; they are more important than just the result, which confirms their skill and significance in this life.
Such people are not interested in evaluation from the outside, they themselves are able to evaluate their actions and deeds. Therefore, they often stay away from companies on the occasion of solving problems, wanting to celebrate their achievements alone or in a narrow circle, easily and without prejudice assigning the role of an idol to others.
4. Do you have any problems when asking other people for help?
Usually, most people consider the fact of turning to others for help a clear sign of their own weakness, and the questions asked at the same time are a sign of their lack of the necessary knowledge, experience, and skills.
Self-confident people always, and without much problem, admit their weak sides. They welcome any help and are ready to accept any advice that helps others to increase their self-esteem, understand their importance in this life.
5. You always wonder "Who, if not me?"
Most people live just waiting for: career advancement, offers from employers, that someone will notice them. Confident people prefer to act. They establish contacts, for example, in in social networks are looking for the necessary acquaintances among their acquaintances and their friends.
Such people know their worth, they are sure that they can find ways to realize their ideas. They are able to build effective relationships with other people, choose their own direction in life.
6. Do you humiliate other people?
A person who discusses and gossips about others without their presence always subconsciously wants to prove to others that he is better and higher. People who are self-confident disdain such things; they don't need it.
7. Are you afraid to look stupid?
Confident people are not afraid of situations in which they may look stupid. And, as a rule, others like it, and they respect them for it.
8. Do you admit your mistakes?
Uncertainty always causes a person to be affected and unnatural in behavior; trust, on the contrary, always breeds honesty, openness, and sincerity. The latter is inherent in those who are confident in themselves, and explains why they are not afraid to admit they are wrong in any questions and situations.
Such people are not afraid of ridicule at themselves, it is not critical for them to look “wrong” in the eyes of others. They are sincere in words and attitudes, therefore every laughter over them is always laughter with them.
9. Are you looking for approval from the people who really matter to you?
So let's recap.
For most people, self-confidence is a derivative of the circumstances of the development of events. Understanding this leads to the desire to find peace and constant confidence in one's actions and thoughts.
By answering the above questions, you can get an objective picture of the level of self-confidence and develop directions for your improvement. But do not forget that confidence is not bravado, swagger or ostentatious courage. She is alien to narcissism, neglect of others, selfishness. Real confidence is not striking, it looks modest, natural.
Nobody will argue with what confident man arouses admiration or envy in the surrounding people.
I personally think every entrepreneur should be 100% sure or strive for it. I noticed a long time ago that all successful people are very confident in what they do.
Here's what Donald Trump has to say about confidence.
Confidence is a magnet. He will attract people to you Donald Trump
How can you test your confidence? - you ask.
Very simple. I suggest you take the test and evaluate your confidence!
Think over the answers to the 32 statements below, writing down on a separate sheet in a four-point system your attitude to these statements.
How to pass the test, calculate points?
You are given 5 possible answers to the 32 statements below. Opposite each of the 5 answers are scores.
Then sum up all the scores for each answer. After, look at the test results.
In this test, the scores mean the following. Answer options for statements:
- I think about it very often - 4 points;
- often - 3 points;
- sometimes -2 points;
- rarely - 1 point;
- never - 0 points.
Good test everyone
Assertions for Assurance Testing
1. I want my friends to cheer me up.
2. I constantly feel my responsibility at work.
3. I am worried about my future.
4. Many people hate me.
5. I have less initiative than others.
6. I worry about my mental state.
7. I'm afraid to look stupid.
8. Appearance others are better than mine.
9. I'm afraid to give a speech in front of strangers.
10. I often make mistakes.
11. What a pity that I do not know how to speak properly with people.
12. What a pity that I lack self-confidence.
13. I would like my actions to be approved by others more often.
14. I am too modest.
15. My life is useless.
16. Many wrong opinions about me.
18. People expect a LOT of me.
19. People are not particularly interested in my achievements.
20. I am a little embarrassed.
21. I feel that many people do not understand me.
22. I don't feel safe.
23. I often worry in vain.
24. I feel awkward when I enter a room where people are already sitting.
25. I feel like people are talking about me behind my back.
26. I feel constrained.
27. I am sure that people perceive almost everything easier than I do.
28. It seems to me that some kind of trouble must happen to me.
29. I care about how people treat me.
30. What a pity that I'm not so sociable.
31. In disputes, I speak out only when I am sure that I am right.
32. I think about what the public expects from me.
Assessing the Confidence Test Results
Click on the "+" and you will see the hidden text of your test result.
0 to 25 points
You can be congratulated!
You are basically confident in your actions.
LONELY.NET! Enikeeva Dilya
QUIZ ARE YOU CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF?
TEST
ARE YOU CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF?
Answer the questions “yes”, “no” or “don’t know”
1. When I was a child, my parents decided everything for me, even in small things.
2. Sometimes I feel lonely and desperate.
3. I believe the following statement to be true: “Life requires obeying those who need it.”
4. I respect people who always know how to stand their ground.
5. Usually I am guided not only by my own interests, but also by the interests of other people.
6. Sometimes it is very difficult for me to refuse someone's request.
7. There are people who are unsympathetic to me, but I cannot end my relationship with them.
8. I sometimes have thoughts that I find it difficult to get rid of.
9. When I need to change everything and start over, I am confused.
10. I like giving to others more than taking from others.
11. I think that insisting on your own when everyone else has a different opinion is simply stupid.
12. I would like someone to be next to me.
13. I understand that others can influence me.
14. Sometimes I am shy and timid and my behavior can change even though I don't want to.
15. I can't forget that the only person who is no longer with me, I really need him.
Each “yes” answer is worth 10 points
Each “I don’t know” answer is worth 5 points
Each “no” answer is 0 points
TEST RESULTS
If you score up to 45 points
You are self-confident, independent and independent. You do not want to depend on other people or your own habits, but sometimes you pay dearly for this.
If you scored between 50 and 95 points
You know your own prices and are happy that others appreciate you too. You are smart and wise and now you can already abandon the previous struggle or protection, you know how to balance between your own need for freedom and independence and the need to depend on some people close to you.
If you have scored more than 100 points
You are very insecure and feel the need to depend on other people. Without these people, you become helpless. You prefer close relationships with people, but these relationships bind you hand and foot. These are heavy fetters, but you cannot break them.
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Therefore, there is no need to rely on anyone. We must rely only on ourselves. While you are young, or no longer young, but still full of energy, do something that will help change your life. Believe me, everything is possible in life, follow your dream!
