Test whether sociable. Are you a sociable person? Are you worried about "what other people think"

How do you know how sociable you are? Pass small psychological test.

The given psychological test will help you to know yourself better. Everything is very simple! Grab a pen and paper and start answering questions.

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How to pass the sociability test?

Answer the questions you see below. After that, you will be able to draw amazing conclusions about your character, namely, your sociability.

Write down the question number and answer option that best matches your behavior and write down their indices (for example 1 a (where 1 is the question number and a is the answer option for that question), 2 in, 3 b etc.).

Recorded responses will be required to process and display results.

The main condition is that all questions must be answered honestly and frankly. Now get on with the questions.

Sociability Test Questions

1. If you are invited to visit by a person whom you do not sympathize with, will you accept this invitation?

  • b) only in exceptional cases

2. Imagine that at a party you are forced to sit next to a person whom you consider your enemy. How will you behave?

  • a) ignore him

  • b) you will only answer his questions

  • c) try to strike up a casual conversation with him

3. You were just about to ring the bell at the front door of your acquaintances' apartment. Suddenly you hear that a family dispute has arisen in the apartment. What will you do?

  • a) still call

  • b) wait until the dispute stops

4. What will you do if you are offered an unloved dish at a party?

  • a) despite being disgusted, you eat this dish

  • b) tell your hosts you can't eat it

  • c) complain about lack of appetite

5. Which sandwich from the table will you choose?

  • a) the best

  • b) the smallest

  • c) closest to you

6. What will you do if there is a sudden interruption in the conversation in the company?

  • a) wait until someone starts talking on new topic

  • b) find some topic yourself

7. Imagine that you are in an unpleasant situation at work or in some other conditions. Will you tell your friends about this?

  • a) definitely

  • b) only friends

  • c) not a single person

8. Do you add anything of your own to the stories you hear from others?

  • b) adding with very minor "improvements"

9. Do you carry a photograph of your beloved with you and do you willingly show it to others?

10. What will you do if, being in a society, you do not understand the told joke?

  • a) laugh with others

  • b) stay serious

  • c) ask someone to explain the meaning of this joke

11. What will you do if, while in a company, you begin to feel a sharp headache?

  • a) will endure

  • b) ask for a headache pill

  • c) go home

12. What will you do if, while visiting, you find out that a program will be broadcast on television that interests only you?

  • a) ask the owner to turn on the TV

  • b) start watching TV in the next room so as not to disturb the rest of the guests

  • c) refuse the program you are interested in

13. You are visiting. When do you feel better?

  • a) when entertaining guests

  • b) when you are entertained by others

14. Do you have a habit of deciding in advance how long you can stay at a party?

15. Correspondent interviews you:

  • a) are you satisfied if an interview with you is published in a newspaper

  • b) would you like it to be in the past?

  • c) it doesn't matter at all

16. Can you be impartial to people you can't stand?

  • a) definitely

  • b) only as an exception

  • c) didn't think about it

17. Do you agree with the opinion of other people, even if it is fair, but unfavorable for you?

  • a) not always

  • b) only if it confirms your opinion

  • c) in fact, why do it?

18. When do you stop arguing?

  • a) the sooner the better

  • b) when this argument does not make any sense

  • c) after you have convinced your opponent

  • a) with pleasure

  • b) if asked

  • c) by no means

20. Imagine that you live in the time of the 1st of Monte Cristo, you are sitting in an underground prison and you suddenly find out that your worst enemy is imprisoned in the next cell. When will you start talking to him?

  • a) as soon as possible

  • b) when you can no longer endure loneliness

  • c) never

21. Do you have a habit of meeting New Year on the main square of the city?

  • c) I always sleep on New Year's Eve

The key to answering test questions

Now take the written answers and use the table to add up the scores for each question.

Question number a) answer option and assessment
question answer in points
b) answer option and assessment
question answer in points
c) answer option and assessment
question answer in points
1 20 5 8
2 0 5 25
3 5 10 0
4 10 0 5
5 0 5 10
6 5 15
7 30 5 0
8 15 5 0
9 0 5 10
10 0 5 10
11 5 10 0
12 0 5 10
13 20 5
14 0 5 10
15 10 0 5
16 15 5 0
17 25 5 0
18 0 5 10
19 0 5 10
20 20 5 0
21 5 0 10

After you know your test score in points, find out the result of your assessment. To display the result, click "+" next to your result and read the report.

280 - 300 points

There is a suspicion that you did not always carefully read the questions posed or did not always answer them sincerely.

Make a second try: check yourself again.

200 - 280 points

You should be pleased with yourself. At least this applies to your ability to communicate.

you willingly spend free time among people and vice versa, in any society you are desirable. You have a lively mind, impressionable, a good listener and storyteller.

All these and some other abilities lead to the fact that you often become the center of attention.

100 - 200 points

Your attitude to public life is not easy to determine.

On the one hand, you have qualities and inclinations that make you a pleasant member of society.

On the other hand, other qualities of your character seem to slow down the first ones. In general, you can feel quite satisfactory in society.

But, in any case, it is not easy for you to adapt to any environment. This matches your mood.

But among the people you sympathize with, you often spend very pleasant hours.

50 - 100 points

As a rule, you like loneliness. In a narrow family or friendly circle you feel much better than in a large company.

You appear to be an introvert. By the way, many famous personalities who went down in history often belonged to this category of people.

Less than 50 points

This result is small.

You need to try to be more social. For you cannot explain to everyone that you are a complete introvert, that this property is from nature.

Not understanding this, many people think: if they don’t want to talk to me, it means that they treat me badly. And having “washed your bones”, two or three such critics will completely agree that you -bad person.

Of course, you can ignore it if it doesn't bother you.

But if it hurts - try to develop the ability to communicate.

Do you know how to behave in such a way as to preserve your dignity, and make a reasonable compromise, and be appreciated? And this is only possible through communication. You can test your level of communication with the test.
Put a plus sign for a positive answer, and a minus sign for a negative answer. After you have finished answering all the questions, check the matching of the signs of your answers with the signs of the decoder table. The number of matches with the table - this will be the numerator of the formula for calculating the coefficient of communication (sociability) - Kk. And the denominator of the formula will be the number 20 - this is the number of test questions.
Number of matches with the decoder
Kk=
20
You need to answer the following questions:
Do you have many friends with whom you constantly communicate?
How long have you been bothered by the feeling of resentment caused by one of your friends?
Do you have a desire to establish new acquaintances with different people?
Is it true that you enjoy spending time with books or other activities than with people?
Do you find it easy to connect with people older than you?
Is it difficult for you to join a new company for you?
Do you find it easy to connect with strangers?
Is it difficult for you to get used to a new team?
Do you seek to meet and communicate with a new person at an opportunity?
Do people around you annoy you, and do you want to be alone?
Do you enjoy being around people all the time?
Do you feel embarrassed or embarrassed if you have to take the initiative to get to know a new person?
Do you like to participate in group activities?
Is it true that you feel insecure around people you don't know well?
Do you think that it is not difficult for you to bring animation to an environment unfamiliar to you?
Do you strive to limit the circle of your acquaintances to a small number of people?
Do you feel at ease in a group that is unfamiliar to you?
Is it true that you don't feel confident and calm enough when you have to say something to a large group of people?
Is it true that you have many friends?
Are you often embarrassed, feel awkward when communicating with unfamiliar people? Decoder:
Questions No. 1, 3, 5, 7, 9, 11, 13, 15, 17, 19 have a "+" sign, the rest have a "-" sign.
If Kk fluctuates between 0.1 - 0.45 - you have a low level of communication.
0.46-0.55 - your level of communication is below average
0.56-0.65 - you have average level communication
0;66-0.75 - you have high level communication
0.76-1.0 - you have a very high level of communication
Some people are closed and silent, while others speak out on any occasion.
Consider the words:
"Only those actions can be recognized as just, the usefulness of which is confirmed in the needs of mutual communication between people." (Epicurus, Greek philosopher, 3rd century BC)
Sociable and nice person anyone can become, regardless of whether nature has endowed you with such a talent or not. The art of communication is, first of all, work on oneself. And to begin with, evaluate yourself today and understand what is worth changing in character.
For each question, choose the appropriate answer: “Yes” (2 points), “Sometimes” (1 point), “No” (0 points).
  1. A personal or business meeting is coming. Are you unsettled by her anticipation?
  2. Are you postponing a visit to the doctor until it becomes unbearable?
  3. Do you feel embarrassed and dissatisfied with the order to make a report, message, information at any conference, meeting, etc.? event?
  4. You are offered to go on a business trip to a city where you have never been. Will you make every effort to avoid this business trip?
  5. Do you like to share your experiences with anyone?
  6. Do you get annoyed if a stranger on the street turned to you with a request - show the way, tell the time, answer some question?
  7. Do you believe that there is a problem of "fathers and sons", and that it is difficult for people of different generations to understand each other?
  8. Are you embarrassed to remind a friend that he forgot to pay you back the $30 he borrowed a few months ago?
  9. Once alone with a stranger, you will not enter into a conversation with him and will be burdened by his presence if he speaks first?
  10. You are horrified by any long wait, anywhere. Would you rather abandon your intention than languish in anticipation?
  11. Are you afraid to participate in the consideration of conflict situations?
  12. You have your own purely individual assessments of works of literature, art, culture, and you do not accept any other people's opinions on this matter.
  13. If you hear somewhere a statement of a clearly erroneous point of view on a matter well known to you, you will prefer to remain silent and not enter into an argument.
  14. Do you get frustrated when someone asks you to help sort out a particular service issue or study topic?
  15. Are you more willing to express your point of view (opinion, assessment) in writing than orally?
Now sum up the points you have scored and evaluate the degree of your sociability.

30-32 points

You are obviously unsociable, and this is your trouble, since you yourself suffer the most. But it’s not easy for those around you either. You are difficult to rely on in a matter that requires group effort. Try to be more sociable, control yourself.

25-29 points

You are closed, taciturn, prefer loneliness, and therefore you probably have few friends. New job, the need for new contacts, if they do not plunge you into a panic, then they unbalance for a long time. You know this feature of yours, and it makes you dissatisfied. But it is in your power to change your own character. Remember: doesn’t it sometimes happen that with a strong passion for something, you suddenly acquire complete sociability? So just shake it up.

19-24 points

You are quite sociable and feel quite confident in unfamiliar surroundings. The problems that arise do not scare you. And yet, with new people, you converge with caution, you are reluctant to participate in disputes and disputes. There is sometimes too much unreasonable sarcasm in your statements. But all these shortcomings are correctable, you just need to want.

14-18 points

You have good communication skills. You are inquisitive and willing to listen interesting interlocutor, are patient enough in communicating with others, defend their point of view without irascibility. Without unpleasant experiences, go to meet new people. At the same time, do not like noisy companies, extravagant antics and verbosity annoy you.

9-13 points

You are very sociable (sometimes, maybe even too much). Curious, talkative, like to speak out on various issues (although sometimes this causes irritation of others). Willingly meet new people. Love to be the center of attention, do not refuse requests to anyone, even if you are not always able to fulfill them. You can flare up, but quickly move away. What you lack is perseverance, patience and courage when faced with serious problems. If you wish, however, you can quite force yourself not to back down.

4-8 points

You must be the shirt guy. Sociability beats the key out of you, you are always aware of everything. Like to take part in discussions (despite the fact that serious topics can give you migraines and even blues). Willingly speak out on any issue, even if you have a superficial idea about it. Everywhere you feel at ease. Take on any business, although not always you manage to bring it to the end. For this reason, managers and colleagues treat you with some apprehension and doubt. It's worth thinking about it.

The given psychological test will help you to know yourself. By answering the questions, you can draw some conclusions about your character and, in particular, your sociability.
Choose the answers that best match your behavior and write down their indexes (for example, 1a, 2b, 36, etc.). Recordings will be required in order to process the results.
Just remember that all questions must be answered honestly and frankly.
1. If you are invited to visit by a person whom you do not sympathize with, will you accept this invitation?
a) yes
b) only in exceptional cases
c) no
2. Imagine that at a party you are forced to sit next to a person whom you consider your enemy. How will you behave?
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a) ignore him
b) you will only answer his questions
c) try to strike up a casual conversation with him
3. You were just about to ring the bell at the front door of your acquaintances' apartment. Suddenly you hear that a family dispute has arisen in the apartment. What will you do?
a) still call
b) wait until the dispute stops
c) leave
4. What will you do if you are offered an unloved dish at a party?
a) despite being disgusted, you eat this dish
b) tell your hosts you can't eat it
c) complain about lack of appetite
5. Which sandwich from the table will you choose?
a) the best
b) the smallest
c) closest to you
6. What will you do if there is a sudden interruption in the conversation in the company?
a) wait until someone starts a conversation on a new topic
b) find some topic yourself
7. Imagine that you are in an unpleasant situation at work or in some other conditions. Will you tell your friends about this?
a) definitely
b) only friends
c) not a single person
8. Do you add anything of your own to the stories you hear from others?
a) yes
b) adding with very minor "improvements"
c) no
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9. Do you carry a photograph of your beloved with you and do you willingly show it to others?
a) yes
b) sometimes
c) never
10. What will you do if, being in a society, you do not understand the told joke?
a) laugh with others
b) stay serious
c) ask someone to explain the meaning of this joke
11. What will you do if, while in a company, you begin to feel a sharp headache?
a) will endure
b) ask for a headache pill
c) go home
12. What will you do if, while visiting, you find out that a program will be broadcast on television that interests only you?
a) ask the owner to turn on the TV
b) start watching TV in the next room so as not to disturb the rest of the guests
c) refuse the program you are interested in
13. You are visiting. When do you feel better?
a) when entertaining guests
b) when you are entertained by others
14. Do you have a habit of deciding in advance how long you can stay at a party?
a) no
b) sometimes
c) yes
15. Correspondent interviews you:
a) Are you satisfied if an interview with you is published in a newspaper?
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b) would you like it to be in the past?
c) it doesn't matter at all
16. Can you be impartial to people you can't stand?
a) definitely
b) only as an exception
c) didn't think about it
17. Do you agree with the opinion of other people, even if it is fair, but unfavorable for you?
a) not always
b) only if it confirms your opinion
c) in fact, why do it?
18. When do you stop arguing?
a) the sooner the better
b) when this argument does not make any sense
c) after you have convinced your opponent
19. If you know poetry, will you read them in society?
a) with pleasure
b) if asked
c) by no means
20. Imagine that you live in the time of the Count of Monte Cristo, sit in an underground prison and suddenly find out that your worst enemy is imprisoned in the next cell. When will you start talking to him?
a) as soon as possible
b) when you can no longer endure loneliness
c) never
21. Do you have a habit of celebrating the New Year on the main square of the city?
a) yes
b) no
c) I always sleep on New Year's Eve
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The key to answering questions
Number Options responses i i grades
question
answers in points
A b V
1 20 5 8
2 0 5 25
3 5 10 0
4 10 0 5
5 0 5 10
6 5 15 -
7 30 5 0
8 15 5 0
9 0 5 10
10 0 5 10
11 5 ¦ 10 0
12 0 5 10
13 20 5 -
14 0 5 15
15 10 0 5
16 15 5 0
17 25 5 0
18 0 5 10
19 0 5 10
20 20 5 0
21 5 0 10

Evaluation of results
280-300 points
There is a suspicion that you did not always carefully read the questions posed or did not always answer them sincerely. Make a second try: check yourself again.
200-280 points
You should be pleased with yourself. At least this applies to your ability to communicate. You willingly spend your free time among people and, conversely, in any society you are desired. You have a lively mind, impressionable, a good listener and storyteller. All these and some more
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abilities lead to the fact that you often become the center of attention.
100-200 points
Your attitude to public life is not easy to determine. On the one hand, you have qualities and inclinations that make you a pleasant member of society. On the other hand, other qualities of your character seem to slow down the first ones. In general, you can feel quite satisfactory in society. But, in any case, it is not easy for you to adapt to any environment. This matches your mood. But among the people you sympathize with, you often spend very pleasant hours.
50-100 points
As a rule, you like loneliness. In a narrow family or friendly circle you feel much better than in a big company. You appear to be an introvert. By the way, many famous personalities who went down in history often belonged to this category of people.
Less than 50 points
This result is small. You need to try to be more social. For you cannot explain to everyone that you are a complete introvert, that this property is from nature. Not understanding this, many people think: if they don’t want to talk to me, it means that they treat me badly. And having “washed your bones”, two or three such critics will completely agree that you are a bad person. Of course, you can ignore it if it doesn't bother you. But if it hurts - try to develop the ability to communicate.

Find out your sociability factor. To do this, it is proposed to answer 16 test questions by V. F. Ryakhovsky. The answer must be unambiguous: “yes”, “no”, “sometimes”.

1. You have an ordinary or business meeting. Does her anticipation unsettle you?
2. Are you postponing a visit to the doctor until it becomes unbearable?
3. Do you feel embarrassed and dissatisfied with an assignment to make a report, message, information at any conference, meeting or similar event?
4. You are offered to go on a business trip to a city where you have never been. Will you make every effort to avoid this business trip?
5. Do you like to share your experiences with anyone?
6. Do you get annoyed if a stranger on the street turns to you with a request (show the way, tell the time, answer some other question)?
7. Do you believe that there is a problem of "fathers and sons" and that it is difficult for people of different generations to understand each other?
8. Are you embarrassed to remind a friend that he forgot to return 10 rubles to you, which he borrowed a few months ago?
9. In a restaurant or in the dining room, you were served an obviously poor-quality dish. Will you keep silent, only angrily pushing the plate away?
10. Once alone with a stranger, you will not enter into a conversation with him and will be burdened if he speaks first. Is it so?
11. You are horrified by any long line, no matter where it is (in a store, library, cinema box office). Would you prefer to give up your intention than to stand behind and languish in anticipation?
12. Are you afraid to participate in any conflict resolution committee?
13. You have your own purely individual assessments of works of literature, art, culture, and you do not accept any other people's opinions on this matter. This is true?
14. Having heard somewhere in the lobby an obviously erroneous point of view on a matter well known to you, would you prefer to remain silent and not enter into an argument?
15. Do you get annoyed when someone asks you to help you sort out a particular service issue or study topic?
16. Are you more willing to express your point of view (opinion, assessment) in writing than orally?

Rate the answers: for each "yes" - 2 points, "sometimes" - 1 point, "no" - 0. Then total number sum the points.
30-32 points. You are clearly uncommunicative, and this is your misfortune, since you yourself suffer the most from this. But it is not easy for people close to you! You are difficult to rely on in a matter that requires group effort. Try to become more sociable, control yourself.
25-29 points. You are closed, taciturn, prefer loneliness, and therefore you probably have few friends. A new job and the need for new contacts, if it does not plunge you into a panic, then it unbalances you for a long time. You know this feature of your character and are dissatisfied with yourself. But do not limit yourself to such discontent - it is in your power to reverse these character traits. Doesn't it happen that with any strong enthusiasm you suddenly acquire complete sociability? It just takes a shake.
19-24 points. You are sociable to a certain extent and feel quite confident in unfamiliar surroundings. New challenges don't scare you. And yet with new people converge with caution, you are reluctant to participate in disputes and disputes. There is sometimes too much sarcasm in your statements for no reason at all. These shortcomings are correctable.
14-18 points. You have good communication skills. You are inquisitive, willingly listen to an interesting interlocutor, patient enough in dealing with others, defend your point of view without irascibility. Feel free to meet new people. At the same time, do not like noisy companies; extravagant antics and verbosity annoy you.
9-13 points. You are very sociable (sometimes, perhaps even beyond measure). Curious, talkative, like to speak out on various issues, which sometimes irritates others. Willingly meet new people. Love to be the center of attention, do not refuse requests to anyone, although you cannot always fulfill them. It happens, flare up, but quickly move away. What you lack is perseverance, patience and courage when faced with serious problems. If you wish, however, you can force yourself not to back down.
4-8 points. You must be the shirt guy. Sociability beats the key out of you, you are always aware of everything. Like to take part in all discussions, although serious topics can give you migraines and even blues. Willingly take the floor on any issue, even if you have a superficial idea about it. Everywhere you feel at ease. You take on any business, although you can’t always successfully bring it to the end. For this very reason, managers and colleagues treat you with some apprehension and doubt. Consider these facts!
3 points or less. Your communication skills are painful. You are talkative, verbose, interfering in matters that have nothing to do with you. You undertake to judge problems in which you are completely incompetent. Willingly or unwittingly, you are often the cause of all sorts of conflicts in your environment. Quick-tempered, touchy, often biased. Serious work is not for you. People - and at work, and at home, and generally everywhere - it's hard with you. Yes, you should work on yourself and your character! First of all: cultivate patience and restraint in yourself, treat people more respectfully, and finally, think about your health - this lifestyle does not go unnoticed.

Everyone can become a sociable and pleasant person, and for this it is absolutely not necessary to have any special “sociability genes”, talent. You need to work on yourself, improve your own level of sociability!

Prepared based on materials: Kan-Kalik, V.A. Grammar of communication / V.A. Kan-Kalik. - M. : Rospedagenstvo, 1995. - 108 p.