CLASS HOUR "What it means to be responsible"

Target: Raising Responsible Behavior

Tasks:

1. to promote the development of a sense of responsibility in schoolchildren;

2. to promote the formation in children of the ability to analyze their actions and character traits, to predict the consequences of their actions:

3. convince students that a person who knows how to be responsible for his actions is worthy of respect.

STUDY PROCESS

1. Org. moment.

2. Emotional mood.

(We form a circle of joy, holding hands standing at the desks)

Hello everyone who came to visit us today.

Hello everyone who believes in kindness.

Hello, everyone who, sparing no effort,

Shares his happiness.

I ask you guys to turn to face each other, join hands and convey your warmth in a circle to all classmates. It will multiply several times and will return to you with warmth, tenderness, good mood. We sit down at the desks.

3. Work on the topic.

Let's talk

Human society is divided into children and adults.

What is the difference between adults and children?

(children answer that adults have more responsibility for children, they are responsible for raising children, they are educated people, wise and experienced, they have more rights, adults try to make children have a happy childhood).

Do you consider your childhood happy?

(Children argue convincingly that they are happy that they live in such a house, they are taken care of here, they are loved here, brought up, beautifully dressed, tasty food, there are hobby classes, there are many orphanage guests who are not indifferent to children ...), i.e. adults, taking care of children, are responsible for their actions.

"I am responsible for my actions." How do you understand these words? (Everyone can speak on the topic, depending on how he understands it).

A ) I(emphasis on this word) and no one else.

b) Emphasis on the word I answer(it means that I think, I make a decision, I act as I thought it over and I bear responsibility for my actions).

c) For their and nobody else.

d) answer for deeds, so I consciously make a choice, I understand what will happen as a result, what will be the consequences of my actions.

The answer - I answer - responsibility.

Today we will talk about responsibility. Find out what it means to be responsible? More and more often you hear from adults "BE MORE RESPONSIBLE!" By being responsible, you definitely develop character.

What is responsibility anyway?

Responsibility- it means to do your duty, to do your actions, to think before you do anything, to try to do everything as best as possible.

Responsibility -duty and readiness to answer for the committed actions, deeds and their consequences.

Now I will ask you to remember a case from your life when you entered responsible and irresponsible...

On the board is an exhibition of drawings "My good deed"

Tell us about a time when you acted responsibly from your point of view.

What feelings did you experience?

Match this feeling with color.

(assume the same only from the opposite situation)

What conclusion can be drawn about your responsible actions?

Conclusion:

– showing responsibility, we receive gratitude, gifts, the world seems bright and bright.

And what conclusion can be drawn about irresponsibility?

Conclusion:

-when we behave irresponsibly, we cause censure, punishment, the world appears in dark colors.

Well done! Everyone coped with the task, which means they reacted to the task responsibly.

4. Attention game(Children stand in a circle or near desks.)

I will name some actions. If I name something that means fulfilling my duties, you clap your hands and say "responsibility", if I name a bad deed, you sit down and say nothing.

Tidy up at home or at school (+)

Put the blame on others for your act (-)

First finish the work, and then play. (+)

You keep working even if the work is very difficult. (+)

Leaving things in a mess for others to clean up after you (-)

First you think, then you do. (+)

Do not pay attention to the ringing bell for the lesson, play (-)

Raise your hand if you want to ask or answer (+)

Do not clear the table and do not wash the dishes, mom will do everything herself (-)

Be attentive, active in the lesson (+)

responsibly.

5. Definition of the SECRET OF LIFE

You may have noticed that the choice may be different in different situations.

There are actions that we have already developed so much in our lives that we don’t even notice that we always do the right thing:

2) say "thank you" and "please", etc.

It has become our habit, brought up from childhood.

But even these good deeds are constantly manifested in each of us, if we want it, if we are responsible for them. This is the manifestation of good will. But do we always use this choice correctly?

Today we started a difficult conversation about how to do the right thing, why you should always, in any situation, think over your decisions and take your time to do things, so that later it would not be excruciatingly painful, ashamed of your choice.

Let's analyze what can happen in the end in our Everyday life, if guided by the principle: “I want and I can”, “I don’t want, but I have to”.

“I want and I can. (say a word)

1) I want to study "excellently" - ... I will learn;

2) I want to help my mother - .... I will clean the room;

4) I want to be healthy - .... I will be tempered;

5) I want to be strong - .... I will go in for sports;

6) I want to learn how to weave from beads - .... I will attend the circle;

7) I want to become a respected person- … do right choice their actions

"I don't want to, but I have to" - Speech on behalf of the parents.

Dima's dad is a driver.

I work as a bus driver. I have to get up early every morning and go to work. Sometimes I want to sleep so much, but I understand very well that if I don’t go to work or I’m late, then ... What do you think will happen then?

Alena's mother is a doctor.

I work as a doctor in an ambulance. I have to work not only during the day, but also at night. Our team goes to the sick as soon as the call arrives. We know that we need to hurry in order to help the patient as soon as possible. What do you think would happen if we said we didn't want to go?

Summing up.

Well done! Worked actively, coped with the task, which means you are doing everything responsibly.

6. THE TRUST SCENE

And now the guys will present to your attention a scene

ALINA: Mom, can I go with the girls to the skating rink.

MOTHER: No Alina! I do not allow you to go to the skating rink with your girlfriends today.

ALINA: Mom, you don't trust me?

MOTHER: You are right, Alina. I do not trust you. Why? Think for yourself, Alina. Think. (Mom leaves, shaking her head.)

ALINA(with herself). What does she mean? I am 10 years old. I am her daughter. She must trust me.

Remember last week you missed school for no good reason, and told the teacher that she was sick. If a person can lie, then he can do other things. Where was your honesty?

CONSCIENCE-VOICE 3: Hey Alina! It's me, your conscience! Since you have begun to remember, then remember how you keep your promises. How many times have you promised to clean your room and just shoved everything under your bed. And everything would be fine if your mother did not find a family of mice settling down there.

How many times have you promised to return on time from a walk, and each time you were late by two time zones. Where is your accuracy and perseverance?

CONSCIENCE-VOICE 4: Hey Alina! It's me, your conscience! What happened to your responsibility. When you went to your girlfriend and left your three-year-old brother unattended, and you promised to play with him while your mother was not at home. Where is your responsibility? Where is your reliability and care?

ALINA: Well, okay, okay, that's enough. Maybe I, however, have not always been honest, decent, responsible, reliable. Nobody's perfect. From today I will begin to be worthy of my mother's trust. I will do well and I will not do bad!

Questions:

How do you think? Will Alina be able to be worthy of her mother's trust?

What does she need to do to do this?

When can this happen?

Be responsible for your actions before your conscience and other people

Well done, you have prepared this task responsibly.

7. Working with pictures "How to avoid trouble" No. 1,2,3 (didactic game)

The guys name the dangerous situations in which the children in the drawings got into.

What conclusion can be drawn?

"A person who canbe responsible for one's actions - worth respect".

Take responsibility for your actions to yourself

8. Table of increasing responsibility

Over the years, the responsibility of a person does not decrease, but only grows.

Responsibility to yourself

Responsibility to conscience, other people
Responsibility before the law, the state

9. Couplets of their own composition about responsible behavior (read aloud to yourself)

Glushchenko V 1. Threw a piece of paper - clean it up, Don't litter the school yard! 2. I water the flowers so that they do not wither in pots!	Kuznetsov D 1. Did the job - then play Help your mom around the house! 2. Threw a piece of paper - clean it up, Show others an example!
Kharlanova L 1. Correct mistakes yourself and help your neighbor! 2. Always do a difficult job and get to work! 3. Don't quit your job When did you start it? 4. Put things in order for yourself, and then go for a walk!	Sklyarova L. 1. Correct mistakes yourself and do not make others! 2. Always do a difficult task, do not make mistakes and do not lose heart. 3. Did the job, then play and walk boldly 4. Do not peel off the school desk, do not draw, but wipe it!
Derevyanchenko Ya. 1. Help with great willingness, Don't quit your job!	Lozovaya A. 1. If mom is sick, Everything around you is upside down Get down to business The house cannot be without you.
Sidorkin K. 1. Correct mistakes yourself Write and read. 2. Put things in order Clean up and wash.

10. Happiness - hail

14 people post rainbow pieces on a board (or draw) with rules

Building a cluster. The song "Good Road" sounds

R (red) Don't let anyone down.

A (orange) Follow the rules of conduct.

D (yellow) Be able to be responsible for their deeds, actions.

Y (green) Perform duties well.

G (blue) Be reliable, executive.

A (blue) Keep promises.

(violet) Don't wait for reminders, checks.

Well done! Everyone coped with the task, which means they reacted to the game responsibly.

What would happen if the student who had the red and green pencils refused to hang up his stripe.

(Rainbow wouldn't work)

How would the student act?

(Irresponsible)

Above the rainbow is attached the sun (1 student), on which is written: "Rules of responsibility."

Be able to take responsibility for your actions... What does that mean?

(read the rules of responsibility)

Optionally attach clouds (3 students):

1. Apply the experience of others in your life.

2. Understand that rash actions can harm me and others.

3. Understand that bad habits must be constantly fought, since bad habits are instilled quickly, and good ones only through an effort of will.

Look at our board.

We can call the sun, rainbow and clouds the “Happinessgram”, because when you help others, do good to people, then your soul becomes warm and joyful.

OUR SECRET: HEART

Our secret is the heart that will tell you what to do, what choice to make in this or that case, because I think you have understood that before committing any act, you need to think carefully about its consequences.

And if you finally decide to do something good, then do everything with your soul, with a pure heart. And now I remembered the words of S.Ya. Marshak

May every day

And every hour

You will get a new one.

May you have a good mind

And the heart will be smart.

Circle “From heart to heart” (they show with movements “to you” - to a neighbor, “to me” - to yourself with a hand, “everywhere” - around you)

Peace, peace, peace everywhere

Peace is in you, peace is in me!

Light, light, light everywhere.

The light is in you, the light is in me!

Love, love, love everywhere

Love in you, love in me!

(hearts of responsibility give out)

When you do something, open your hearts to better actions ask yourself the questions that are written on your hearts of responsibility: WHAT? FOR WHAT? HOW?

11. Summary of the lesson. (2 students read a poem)

be responsible

Everyone needs a lot.

It is very important

At school and at home.

And in your life

Without him - nowhere.

I forgot I'm responsible

There will be trouble.

Do you remember, my friend,

This important secret.

The result of our conversation will be not only our Right words but also things. Let the folk wisdom “Measure seven times, cut once” be your constant guide.

12. Reflection.

Sit comfortably, relax.

Close your eyes and mentally continue the phrase:

“Today’s conversation helped me understand that…”

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The Austrian psychologist, philosopher and humanist Viktor Frankl once subtly noted that responsibility is the basis of human existence. Indeed, for any adult, responsibility is a strictly mandatory quality, unless, of course, he wants to be independent, successful and happy. We will talk about how to become more responsible in this material.

Responsibility: why is it important?

IN modern world, many people, unfortunately, absolutely do not want to grow up. Having reached the age of majority or later, they still continue to sit on the neck of their parents, the state, or even their spouse - husband or wife. They play computer games, spend time on the Internet or in bad company on the street and completely forget that their role in life is also to find a decent job, get a good salary and provide for a family.

To achieve these goals, to become a respected and worthy person in all respects, only a responsible person can. A responsible person understands that in each individual situation he has a huge variety of options, knows how to make decisions and knows that his life time is limited. Such an individual appreciates every free minute, tries to use it for his own benefit and never shifts responsibility for his actions, feelings and thoughts to other people or circumstances. He does not blame others for his failures and mistakes and knows that in order to change something, you need to start with yourself and change yourself.

Let us return to Frankl, who, by the way, developed a whole theory dedicated to the meaning of life and responsibility, calling it logotherapy (from the Greek “logos”, which means “meaning”). According to the famous Austrian doctor, responsibility is what life itself puts a person in front of and what many of us strive to avoid. He often compared responsibility to an abyss, very deep and frightening, but at the same time very majestic.

A prominent psychologist notes that our future and the future of other people depend entirely on us. After all, every second only we make a choice and make a single decision, implement or, conversely, miss the opportunity that is available at a given moment in time. And on what decision we make, depends not only our behavior, but also the behavior, as well as the attitude of others towards us.

About overly responsible people

But there is another extreme - excessive responsibility, which, by the way, is characteristic of quite a few people. For example, people with a shy character often suffer from it. Individuals who lack self-confidence and low self-esteem often project their fears into the future. Suppose they are often afraid to call or take the first step before meeting an interesting person, because they are set up to refuse and think that a potential interlocutor will not communicate with them due to being busy, unwilling to build relationships and communicate with them. Thus, they take responsibility for the feelings, thoughts and actions of other people in advance, thereby programming themselves for failure.

If we talk about excessive responsibility in general, then in essence, this is actually the same as irresponsible behavior, since a person thinks about others, but stops thinking about himself, taking care of himself and his needs.

How to become more responsible?

For those wishing to get rid of excessive responsibility and control, two books can be recommended for reading: Henry Cloud - "Barriers" and Susan Jeffers - "Fear, but act!" In the first of the proposed works, it is well explained what exactly we ourselves are responsible for, and what other people are responsible for. In particular, we are responsible to others and to ourselves. Along the way, the book will teach you to set personal boundaries, make the right choice, despite the manipulation and emerging feelings of the interlocutor, say “No” in various life situations, etc.

The second book is a popular bestseller from a specialist in the field of positive psychology. The study of this creation, by the way, will be very helpful for those people who suffer from shyness, indecision and various fears.

Take responsibility for your life. In other words, realize that in every single situation you have thousands of possibilities and choices. But this choice is made by you, and not by anyone else.

Remember the finiteness of our life. Appreciate every free minute and do not forget that in every single moment you also make a choice. Some decisions are up, others are down.

Try not to shift responsibility to others or external circumstances. Many people often attribute failures to an unhappy childhood, psychological trauma and blame others (parents, spouses, etc.). This is an unconstructive position. To become more responsible, you need to gradually remove yourself from the place of a child and take the position of an adult who is responsible for everything in his life himself.

In relationships with other people, divide the responsibility in half. Remember that any relationship (business, personal, etc.) must be equal. Equal responsibility - does not mean that your companion, business partner or leader should behave the same way as you. This means that each of us has his own burden and duty to fulfill properly. You are responsible only for your side and do not climb into someone else's territory.

Get rid of the Inner Talker, which Susan Jeffers writes about in a book. The Inner Talker is that monologue that you carry on with yourself, preventing you from overcoming your fears and taking responsibility for what is happening. In other words, this is a negative thinking and it should be gradually replaced with a positive one.

Learn to say "No" to the people around you. Start small, for example, in order to refuse sellers in stores. When saying “No” to your interlocutor, it is important to remember that your interlocutor may have negative feelings - anger, resentment, etc. They can be used as manipulation to get you to agree with the persuader. Therefore, in spite of them, firmly stand your ground. For example, when breaking up with a man who is not suitable for you, do not make contact. A person needs to endure the bitterness of loss, pain is a manifestation of love for him, since it passes with time.

Don't be afraid to take responsibility. Expand your comfort zone. Start with small tasks, then move on to bigger ones. For example, sign up for training courses and get a new profession. Take on a new work order and do the assigned task "100%". All of this will help you build your self-confidence.

Keep a diary. In it, mark both victories and mistakes, which you should pay attention to next time so as not to make the wrong choice. Review your notes regularly so that you don't forget what you once did.

Formulate your life goals and proceed to consistently achieve them. Take responsibility for setting these goals for yourself. On the correct setting of goals on our website there is a separate one.

Realize the benefits that gives you loose behavior, irresponsibility. This is a difficult to implement, but very important point. Many do not understand that it is beneficial for them to remain small children, get sick or avoid something, because. such behavior attracts a lot of attention in relation to oneself, sympathy and support. Over time, you must learn to act and accept independent solutions regardless of whether others approve of them or treat them negatively.

Let's imagine the following situation: at the meeting, the boss set a number of tasks that require responsible teamwork. By the end of the quarter, everything should be finished, and each of the employees expresses their willingness to contribute. But now the time is coming, and things, as they say, are still there. Have employees forgotten about their jobs? Not at all. It's just that none of them felt on their own responsibility for the fulfillment of the assigned tasks. Are you familiar with such cases?

It is very important to be not just, but to feel this inner individual responsibility. It comes from within, because it cannot be created by the boss. You yourself must understand and be responsible for your every action and deed.

Below we will consider, namely 8 habits characteristic of this type of people.

1. Taking responsibility.

A decent responsible person is not afraid to take responsibility, he does not run away from it and does not try to shift it onto others. He gladly takes on the necessary tasks and does quality work so that no one has to worry or redo.

2. A responsible person doesn't need excuses.

He does not look for the guilty and does not despair in case of failure. Responsible human behavior involves finding ways to solve the difficulties that have arisen, because hopeless situations practically do not exist. Such people never try to whitewash themselves and “shift” the blame for their failures onto another. They endure their mistakes, analyze them and try to correct and avoid them in the future.

3. Responsible person keeps deadlines.

No wonder folk wisdom says: "a good spoon for dinner." Decent responsible person knows that the value of each task depends on how timely it is completed. He is aware of the hope and trust placed in him, which is why punctuality and the ability to do everything within the allotted time frame are another sign of a responsible person.

4. The ability to be the master of your life.

It is impossible to live and do anything without facing problems. However, a person with developed individual responsibility is always able to maintain self-confidence and a positive attitude, overcoming any obstacles with their help. Such a person does not wait for checks and instructions, he himself does the work with high quality, helping his colleagues in word and deed.

5. The ability to keep your feelings under control.

Responsible human behavior means by itself to restrain any emotions that may in one way or another interfere with the implementation of tasks. Such people can control their feelings, preventing them from pulling themselves out of a state of calm. They boldly "rush into battle" with problems and find solutions, maintaining professional composure.

6. Such a person plans and controls everything.

He clearly knows what and when he must do, he thinks everything over and follows the plan. In the event of a problem, a person who feels responsible thinks about all the solutions, chooses the most suitable one and informs all interested people that the problem is solved and you can move on according to the plan.

7. Interaction with others.

A responsible person can unlock the potential of the people around him, he skillfully attracts all available resources and knows how to work with people. Charging them with his responsibility, he encourages active work, helping his colleagues and subordinates to make a significant contribution to the common cause.

8. Work not for praise.

The main reward that such a person expects is high-quality work, both personal and collective, completed on time. The joy of the achieved results is beyond praise, and various incentives from the authorities are just a pleasant addition.

We hope that by studying signs of a responsible person, you will be able to change yourself and make these 8 habits your life settings. In this case, respect and trust from colleagues and superiors will certainly not be long in coming!

Human life is a series of events that entail responsibility. Getting married is a big step in everyone's life. We take responsibility for our other half and for our future life together. If the family breaks up without having lived even a year, then it is absolutely clear that the couple did not take this event in life as a responsibility. Without mutual responsibility and understanding, even with great love, the family longboat will break on the rocks of life.

1. A child was born in the family. This joyful event entails the need to realize the enormous responsibility that falls on the shoulders of parents. Especially in early age Children, like sponges, absorb everything that surrounds them. Parenting success is personal. positive example behavior. If the father treats his mother with tenderness and care, then the son, observing the behavior of his father from a very early age, will treat his mother in the same way, and then his soul mate.

2. Responsibility for oneself - an understanding of what we are responsible for and what we are not responsible for. It is important to be able to communicate with people, to refuse or accept refusal so as not to break off relations and offend - it is difficult, but you need to strive for this. Because it is a manifestation of responsible behavior.

3. You can become a more responsible person if you realize that we make decisions on our own and we will answer for the consequences ourselves. Quite often parents, seeking to protect their children from the dangers of life, prevent the development of strength that will help to cope with the problems of life. Children grow up without self-confidence. As adults, it will be difficult for them to be responsible people.

4.As long as we believe that life situation, our failures come from someone outside, then we have no desire to change ourselves. Therefore, in order to change the situation that does not suit you in life, work on yourself and take responsibility for fate into your own hands. It must be remembered that responsibility for everything at once means not being responsible for anything.

5.Becoming a more responsible person will allow responsibility for everything in your life and fate is always in your own hands. And we must always remember that if you shift the responsibility to others, you will not be able to learn anything yourself.

6. You must finally make a firm decision to take responsibility for your life. Responsibility for all white and black stripes in your destiny. Every morning, out loud, say this statement to yourself until you accept it as true. Your faith in it as truth will bring it to life.

7. A responsible person is a free person, and in order not to depend on circumstances, include enough large space. The space with which you come into contact, where you live is a must. The better you understand the space, the less problems you will get from it. Before traveling to a country unknown to you, study all the intricacies of local life, learn the history and then your trip will be great.

8. A happy person will be able to give happiness to his children, and this is precisely his responsibility for their fate. Your health is in your hands. Take responsibility for your body, take care of it, love it and you will soon notice positive changes.

9. Getting rid of fears, especially before everything new will help you become a more responsible person. Be honest, do not be afraid of the new, because the saying is true - how honest a person is, so responsible.

The term "responsible person" has become quite popular in our time. It can be observed even in job advertisements as mandatory requirement to the candidate. As a property of a person, the word "responsibility" cannot be found even in large explanatory dictionaries. However, many people have their own opinions regarding its meaning. The characteristic of a responsible person is a very subjective concept. Let's see what responsibility is.

Responsibility is the ability and willingness of an individual to invest his time, money, or part of his freedom to achieve a certain goal. In some cases, the term may also include the ability to be punished for one's actions. In such situations, responsibility implies a certain justice of the individual in how he treats himself. The person agrees that his actions deserve some reproach, and is ready to bear responsibility for them.

This term is quite ancient, it is found in many languages. Interestingly, in all cases it is associated with the ability to react or respond to something, and is also associated with a certain punishment. Initially, punishment was a quite tangible concept. For example, murder was punished by some compensation for moral and material damage.

Today sense of responsibility more associated with a person's ability to keep given word, as well as make decisions in which the individual acts not only in his own interests. The concept of responsibility is much broader than the term "obligation". However, the second is an integral part of the first.

Responsibility takes place only when there is a relationship between two or more people. That is, such a thing as responsibility does not exist outside of society. Then, when it comes to the fact that a person responsibly does something specifically for himself, it still means personal quality formed in society. There is a clear direct relationship between the closeness of a person's connection with other people and the likelihood that a person will be responsible. For this quality to be formed, you need the experience of responsible relationships and a developed activity reflection. Therefore, this property can only be in a really acting person.

Responsibility, like self-criticism, an essential quality that any leader should have. Nevertheless, in our time, an incorrect attitude towards the concept of a leader has been formed. Everywhere and everywhere the idea is propagated that each person should strive to be ahead of or at the head of any group of people. Unfortunately, such propaganda is a trap for responsible people who lack the skills and inclinations of management. Because of this, they have to suffer and lose their health, doing a business that, in fact, is not their path. This is especially true for young men, who at an early age earn a number of diseases, experiencing severe stress at work.

Thus, responsibility is a social concept, and it is supported by some action. At the same time, the measure of responsibility should be formed by each individual specifically for himself, with an eye to his capabilities.

How to become a responsible person

Responsibility is a skill that can be acquired with some effort. To understand how to become more responsible, it is necessary to consider the existing levels of assessment of this quality. Ask someone you know to analyze you according to the criteria below. Often, after such an assessment, many questions arise, the answers to which will be useful. Since it is not easy to become responsible right away, an external independent look will be very valuable, which will be discussed below.

Levels of personal responsibility

• Zero liability implies that you are playing the role of a dependent. You completely disclaim any responsibility because you think that someone's concern for you is a self-evident duty. Such a person does not think about how to become more responsible, because he is comfortable in his current position.
• The first level puts you in the position of a performer. Such a person practices the principle "work is not a wolf." Usually such people do nothing until they are told to do something. If the performer is not pushed to take some action, then he will still be at the starting point.
• The second level of responsibility implies that a person takes the position of a specialist. Such people do their work qualitatively, but at the same time they do not put their soul into it. They see their job as a way to earn money and nothing more. You should not expect any initiative from such a person. Such people are not interested in helping or suggesting something. You need to understand that a specialist can leave you at any time if he finds a more profitable occupation. Such people quite often use the phrase "I'm not paid for this", thereby limiting themselves from activities that are not included in the list of their powers.
• The third level is occupied by the responsible employee. Even if such a person does not perform his functions with sufficient quality at the moment, he strives to develop and acquire the necessary skills. Therefore, in the future, a responsible employee will certainly become a professional in his field. The results of his work are important to him, he is quite initiative and open to the exchange of experience. Such a person treats his occupation with interest. He considers his employer's business as his own. Each employee who works with him shoulder to shoulder is perceived by him as a member of the family. A responsible employee never says, "I'm not getting paid for this." When he is entrusted with some business, he does it, and then talks with his superiors about how this work should be paid for both him and his colleagues.
• The fourth level of responsibility is occupied by the local manager. Such a person is a manager who organizes the work of subordinates to achieve their goals. This person takes responsibility for himself and for others. He is not afraid to give orders and make serious decisions, on the correctness of which the fate of many depends. The local leader loves work less because he has to delegate it to his wards, who make it worse than he is. However, it is more correct to entrust it to employees, and not to do it yourself. The local manager organizes the work process in the area entrusted to him.
• The fifth level is for the director, who supervises the lower level bosses. This person is responsible for the business as a whole, while placing tactical decisions in the hands of his wards. It remains for him to formulate a strategy. A person of this level is able to open new directions or close existing ones. He is a professional who makes serious decisions. However, the level of his responsibility is limited solely to the salary received and the prestigious position.
• The sixth level of responsibility is peculiar only to the business owner. It is this person who organizes the business in which he invests his money, time and soul. He is able to be responsible for the result of his actions not only with finances, but also with life. The owner considers his own business as his child, whom he raised for many years. He selects a director who can effectively manage his business, but at any time he can replace him with another. Interestingly, the owner of a large company rarely lights up in public. He is a kind of neck of the CEO, which directs the latter in the right direction. The business owner does not ask himself the question: “How to become a responsible person?”. He is responsible by definition, since the well-being of the whole staff of employees and his own financial condition depend on him.

Do not consider the above levels as positions. They represent levels of personal development. For example, a person who holds the position of director of a large enterprise, from the personal-psychological side, can be an ordinary specialist or performer. At the same time, his secretary, psychologically, may well turn out to be the owner. Often there are men who at work manifest themselves as effective leaders, and at home they turn into dependents or performers. It is not uncommon for women housewives to take full responsibility, choosing for themselves the role of the owner of the family. At the same time, they raise their husband as the head of the family.

Raising a sense of responsibility is to teach yourself to see your obligations, as well as to be able to fulfill them and pay for the consequences. Moreover, the payment can be expressed in time or in money. You must be able to pay for your own mistakes even when you don't want to.

Since it is not easy to develop responsibility right away, you can perform the following tasks to acquire this quality:

• First of all, you need to make responsibility one of your values. You need to realize that this quality is a very important social skill that gives you a chance to noticeably improve your life. Development of responsibility personality is a process that requires only your desire. You should have a desire to cultivate this quality in yourself. Take responsibility for your family life. Then you can realize, for example, that the author of any resentment that arises in a relationship is only you.
• You can practice developing personal responsibility by asking yourself questions about what you can do now and what options you have. It is very helpful to replace "I want" requests with questions about what needs to be done in order to get what I want.
• You can develop responsibility by asking yourself more often: “What should I do to be fully responsible for my actions?”
• Since developing a sense of responsibility alone is not always easy, you can choose your mentor(partner) who will encourage and penalize you if necessary. It is better to select a person who can adequately assess your development and control your life. The partner will motivate you to follow a certain labor discipline, without postponing any tasks for later.
• It will not be superfluous to send reports on your development to your partner remotely at regular intervals. It is enough to do this 2 times a week. You can come up with penalties for non-compliance with deadlines and methods of rewarding for a responsible approach to this issue. By doing this for twenty-one days, you will be able to develop a good habit to some extent.

Now you know what it means to be a responsible person. With effort, you will soon notice certain changes in your life. The development of personal responsibility according to the above scenario will allow us to see good results in the near future.